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THE MIDNIGHT SLEEPOVER
At a daughter's birthday sleepover, a frightened eight-year-old seeks her mother in the middle of the night, forcing a single mom to decide how long to stay.
Should she have waited till morning?
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A birthday sleepover turned into a midnight pickup when one 8-year-old came crying to the host's bedroom and said she wanted her mom.
The poster, a single mom, had arranged a small sleepover for her own daughter and a couple of friends. The night started like any kid's birthday party should: snacks, movies, and then bedtime around 10:30. She later clarified, "single mom here, so there was no man in the room, don't worry."
Then, at about 1:30 in the morning, one of the girls appeared at her door in tears.
According to the poster, the child was scared and wanted her mother. The mom tried to calm her down, sat with her, and got her a drink. But as the conversation went on, the girl said something the host says she had not known before: "This was her first time sleeping somewhere new."
That detail changed the tone of the night.
The poster said she kept trying to comfort the child, but the crying did not stop. The girl kept saying she wanted to go home. After waiting and seeing that it wasn't getting better, the poster called the child's mother and asked her to come pick her up in the middle of the night.
The mother did come, though she seemed annoyed.
By morning, the sleepover drama had spread from the bedroom to the phone. The mother texted that she wished the poster had simply waited until daylight, because "now her daughter is embarrassed and might not want to try sleepovers again."
The poster said she felt stuck in an unfair position. She had not been told this was the child's first sleepover anywhere, and she said the whole thing felt "destined to fail from the start." In her view, she should not have had to use her home, during her own child's birthday party, as "the guinea pig" for a first-time sleepover without any warning.
She said, "I'm not mad at the girl at all," and that she felt sorry for her. But she also said she did not think "it was my job to handle that level of distress all night."
Now she's left wondering whether she should have just stayed up longer and tried to push through until morning.