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AN 8-YEAR-OLD BOY WAS CRYING BEFORE SCHOOL BECAUSE
An 8-year-old boy was crying before school because his recess kept disappearing
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An 8-year-old boy was crying before school because his recess kept disappearing.
The second-grader was, by his mother's description, "very polite, smart and dedicated to his education." He was also busy: chess club, robotics, sports. He was a little anxious, a little shy, and he had one bright spot in the school day that he seemed to need, recess.
But in his math class, recess came after the lesson. And for a week straight, that recess had been taken away from the entire class because some students kept misbehaving and interrupting the teacher.
The boy was still doing his work. He had a 95 in the class. None of that changed the part that mattered most to him: every morning, he started crying and dragging his feet to school because he was afraid recess would be cancelled again.
So his mother wrote to the teacher and asked whether there was anything her son could do to make sure he still got recess.
The reply came back bluntly: "no, if my lesson is being interrupted, recess will continue to be cancelled until I can get thru my lesson"
The mother said she understood the teacher was dealing with disruption, but she also said her son needed recess to unwind and focus. Then she looked up the rules in Texas and found what she believed was the answer: for schools sixth grade and under, students must get at least 30 minutes of recess, and it cannot be taken away as punishment.
That left her stuck between two concerns. She wrote that she did not want to get the teacher in trouble, but she also did not want to watch her son start each school day in tears. Her husband thought she was overreacting. She did not.
"I do find this unacceptable," she wrote, and asked whether she should take it to the principal or counselor, or try the teacher again with more force.
She did not stop at the email. In an update, she said she went to the vice principal in person and explained everything. She said her son was a great student, but was now dealing with anxiety because the whole class was being withheld from recess. The vice principal first seemed to brush it off a little, saying it might be fine if it happened once or twice, but not repeatedly.
The mother also said the district handbook backed her up: recess could not be used as punishment. The vice principal agreed to speak with the teacher. She added that another parent had reported a kindergartener being withheld from recess a couple of times, too.
Then came the part she'd been hoping for. The next day, and the day after, her son and his whole class had recess.
She said she would keep watching the situation. "Happy spring yall!"