Workplace Nightmares·
THE COLD CLOSING
A couple uses the same agent for selling and buying and wonders why a $30,000 commission didn't come with a simple token of thanks at closing.
Was that just business, or too cold?
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The house was sold, the new one was bought, and the realtor walked away with about $30,000, then said nothing.
That was the sting behind a post titled, "Did we do something wrong?" The poster and their partner had used the same agent for both sides of the move: selling their old home and buying the next one. By the end of the process, they figured the realtor had earned a tidy commission from the two transactions.
The sale, by all accounts, had been easy. "We were pretty easy (or so we thought)," the poster wrote. Their house "went under contract after 1 afternoon of showings and 1 open house." On the buying side, the search was short too. "We only put in 2 offers and the second one is the house we ended up buying."
So when closing day arrived, they expected at least a small acknowledgment. Not a grand gesture. Not a lavish gift. Just something.
Instead, the agent gave them nothing visible at all.
"On closing day our agent did nothing for us - not a card, bottle of champagne, even a verbal thank you," the poster said. After two completed deals and roughly $30,000 in commission, there was no note slipped across the table, no celebratory bottle, no quick thank-you as the paperwork wrapped up.
That absence is what threw them. "We weren't expecting anything or certainly anything extravagant," the poster wrote, "but after a 30k paycheck we were hoping for at least a little thank you?"
The post left the question hanging in plain sight: if the transactions went smoothly, the house sold fast, the offers were few, and the commission was already banked, why did the closing feel so abrupt? The poster didn't describe an argument, a dispute, or any missed payment, just a realtor who handled both deals and, at the end, gave no apparent acknowledgment at all.
And that was the whole mystery behind the question, "Did we do something wrong?"